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Posted by on Nov 16, 2017 in Accomplishment, Blame, Coaching, Freedom, Happiness, Light Hearted Lessons, Looking Inside, Mindset, Motivational, Responsibility, Self Confidence, Work Life Balance | 0 comments

Irritated? Here is a quick fix.

Well here is the second post in our series of posts that help you to figure out where you are now and where you want to go next year so it can be the most productive year ever. Tay we are going to talk about getting out of the rut that has been created by your underlying limited belief that others or other things are to blame for the things you are unhappy with yourself or in your life. Think about this, have you ever been pissed off at the scorching heat or the 30 below winter when you know you live in that climate? Probably not, do you know why? its simply because you can´t change it but you can change how you deal with it and think about it. It’s you, your perception and your reactions that are the key here. If you have the heat or the cold you can move, or you can dress less, go for a swim, put on a parka, take up...

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Posted by on Jul 17, 2015 in Accomplishment, Blame, Coaching, Goals, Responsibility | 0 comments

8 Reasons Why You Need To Man Up And Take Responsibility For Your Life

When we are little we are cute and innocent and our biggest goal is to learn through play, relationships and experiences. We are taught to listen to our parents, to be nice to our siblings, not to hit or pull hair. We are encouraged to be kind and to apologize when we do something wrong. We go to school where we are taught to follow the rules, not to tattle on anyone and to conform to the school policy and culture. We learn to look past things that bother us because to deal with them would cause conflict. We graduate to middle school and begin to compare ourselves to others, affecting our self esteem and causing us to learn the fine art of gossiping, blaming and denial. We see this big crowded world as an intimidating place where things happen to us, a place where we have no control, and we don´t. Kids usually are not taught to feel autonomous, to feel in control of their destiny and in...

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Posted by on Jul 9, 2013 in Accomplishment, Blame, Family, Freedom, Goals, Happiness, Life Coach, Light Hearted Lessons | 0 comments

Taking 100% Responsibility for Your Life

Today I realized that there are a lot of people out there that need help trying to figure out how to make their lives phenomenal. Its about making a decision to change the way you perceive your life and how you want to react to it. There are so many twists and turns in life that can affect what happens next in your life and what your future will bring that you really need to be on top of how you deal with them. Your life is the result of the way that you deal with it. It is the culmination of all the decisions you have made, every reaction you have had and each and every choice you have made. Many people today feel they are entitled to something good in life. They feel that life owes them or that society owes them something when this is not the case. Life does not owe you anything instead you owe yourself something. You owe yourself the respect to take...

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Posted by on Jun 11, 2012 in Blame, Coaching, Drifa´s Favorite Things / Reviews and Suggestions, Goals, Happiness, Light Hearted Lessons, Motivational, Work Life Balance | 0 comments

Taking responsibility for your life

Just a reminder Sign up to the right to get updates, a free ebook and lots of great tips. Being a busy mom can be a challenge at the best of times but when you are balancing a career, business or job with your family and still trying to have a little time for yourself it can really be a challenge Most people think that they are in charge of their lives but in reality they allow outside factors to control their lives like guilt, outside expectations and external pressure. In order to really take control of your life and your future you need to reconcile with the past and take responsibility for your future. You need to admit that everything you have experienced in the past and all of your reactions to those situations that occurred in the past have caused the future you are experiencing right now. It is your actions and decisions that have brought you here to this moment. There is no one to blame...

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Posted by on Jun 26, 2009 in Blame, Coaching, Freedom, MISL, Responsibility, Work Life Balance | 2 comments

The beauty of responsibility

I don´t blame myself for not being responsible all the time, or do I . I actually think this is something to explore quite a bit. I would like to start with everything  in my life  other than me of cource. I can pretend that this has nothing to do with me…at least for a while. It can be a little dishartening to discover that the people you blame for all the worlds ills may be innocent, may not be to blame. mabye there is no blame. mabye if the perspective shifts the blame goes away and by taking responsibility you become free. HUH??? lets start again. As I sit here blaming, complaining, whining I am becoming very tiered of myself. Whats with all the negativity? Why don´t I just stop the insanity and look at the facts. We as people teach others how to treat us. So how we are treated is up to us. We control it, we decide.  We need to take responsibility for how we...

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