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Posted by on Dec 15, 2014 in Coaching, Feeling Overwhelmed, Looking Inside | 0 comments

When you lose hope know there is a new tomorrow

I just spoke to a good friend of mine that recently lost her husband. She has two children 4 and 6 and they are struggling just as she is with the loss of the love of their life. Loss is a part of life but it never seems to be something we get use to or can fully accept. After a heart felt conversation with her it makes me reflect on life, love and how to go on. She had lived through a very difficult childhood, challenging adolescents and heartbreaking mental illness but has always been one of the strongest people I know. She reminds me of the Gloria Gainer song I will survive because no matter what happens she seems to be able to bounce back. I admire her strength, tenacity and perseverance. She has broken the circle of dysfunction that she grew up with and is a fabulous mother and role model.   In the past 3 years I have lost my grandfather, aunt, father in law and best friend. Before that...

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Posted by on Oct 30, 2014 in Accomplishment, Goals, Micro Expressions and Body language, Motivational, Productivity, Uncategorized | 0 comments

How to increase your sales without compromising your integrity!

Most sales professionals would like to excel at their jobs, but find themselves struggling to achieve increased sales. An easy way to combat this problem is to learn to read your customers micro expressions. If you are in sales, you understand how important it is to make a sale. If you are like me you feel like it is a challenge, a puzzle and an exciting journey, but it can be very challenging especially when you feel you are not connecting with the customer or cannot really see how they are feeling towards what you are saying. Many sales people look for advice, books on selling better and sales courses to help them increase their sales but find that the advice and practices that are required make them feel uncomfortable. Having a high standard for personal ethics, practicing integrity and being honest genuine and a good listener not only give you a satisfying feeling at the end of the day but can increase sales however you may feel you would like to get an edge on the competition. Thats...

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Posted by on Aug 4, 2014 in Goals, Uncategorized | 0 comments

My Dream Job

I have spent the last year working on a business company that is not my dream job. I put everything on hold for it and put all my effort into this company that was to be my nest egg. It will be successful and after a year of time investment I will advocate so that someone else can take it through the growth phase. This leaves me to think about what do I want. What is MY dream. Where do I want to go from here. MY DREAM JOB? It is very difficult to think about because I have focused on something that is totally different for the past year. I feel a bit lost like a fish out of water, once again beginning from scratch because as usual I put something other than my dream first. Very typical. Not a mistake rather a bump in the road. A detour on my path, a glitch a roadside stop. I have spent the past year building a successful business that...

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Posted by on Jul 17, 2013 in Happiness, Life Coach, Mindset, Motivational | 0 comments

Why Are You Here and What Are You Doing Here?

Why are you here? What is you life’s purpose?   Knowing why we are here can be a challenge. It can be the main question in our lives and a major dilemma that we are fixated on or it can be a non concern depending upon your personality. I recommend knowing why you are here and what your purpose is. If you don´t know then you need to find that out. It is your responsibility and duty towards yourself. The thing is,  if you do not know where you are going how in the world can you expect to get there. The fact is you can´t. You have to know where you are going in order to get there. A pilot does not leave the tamarack unless he knows where he is going. A sailor does not leave port without a plan, an entrepreneur does not embark on a business venture without a business plan just like you should not thrust into life without a life plan. Why are...

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Posted by on Jul 9, 2013 in Accomplishment, Blame, Family, Freedom, Goals, Happiness, Life Coach, Light Hearted Lessons | 0 comments

Taking 100% Responsibility for Your Life

Today I realized that there are a lot of people out there that need help trying to figure out how to make their lives phenomenal. Its about making a decision to change the way you perceive your life and how you want to react to it. There are so many twists and turns in life that can affect what happens next in your life and what your future will bring that you really need to be on top of how you deal with them. Your life is the result of the way that you deal with it. It is the culmination of all the decisions you have made, every reaction you have had and each and every choice you have made. Many people today feel they are entitled to something good in life. They feel that life owes them or that society owes them something when this is not the case. Life does not owe you anything instead you owe yourself something. You owe yourself the respect to take...

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Posted by on May 26, 2013 in Coaching, Happiness, Looking Inside | 0 comments

5 Tricks to Gaining Respect

Below I am going to let you in on the 5 tricks to gaining respect both from yourself as well as from others. Everyone wants to be able to command respect from others, doing so makes us feel good about ourselves and our accomplishments. The reality is that it is not automatic rather a process that takes time. Gaining respect from others begins within you, how you behave, react, act and what you believe and stand for. It starts with you trusting, believing in and respecting yourself and your boundaries. We tend to respect people that are strong, independent and know who they are and what they want in life but when it comes to ourselves often fail to remember that fact when seeking the respect we so crave. Respect yourself if you want to get respect from others You know as well as I do that it is very difficult to respect someone that does not respect themselves. We look for self worth, self love and self care...

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